Let’s break this down…what happens when self love meets your inner baddie era?!
Self Love is the regard for one’s own well-being and happiness. Baddie these days simply means a girl who is slaying the game! So shouldn’t we SLAY our SELF LOVE GAME?! Hello yes… That’s where your self love baddie era comes in. *Yes we are getting matching jackets*
I know that self love is a term that might appear trendy, but honestly girl, it’s freaking here to stay. If it is considered trendy, it’s only because at some point we caved to outside standards and got lost in the hustle, myself included. We forgot who we were…aka welcome to your BADDIE era.
Where you walk away from situations that make you feel like 💩 . You say NO when it’s out of alignment and YES to what you are really craving. In fact, you might find yourself saying YES a lot more than you used to, because you are stepping out in glitter bravery.
I think I just teared up a little thinking about YOU finally being YOU!!! Not the you that has just been surviving, but the you that is thriving. Not the you that hid from the world and played small. The you that actually went after the opportunities and you didn’t stay back.
That’s the YOU we are searching for. I also call this, THE GLITTER! It won’t find you…you actually have to find it.
HOW TO CULTIVATE YOUR INNER SELF LOVE BADDIE
✨ STEP ONE:
Decide what it is that you actually want. Seriously.
There are several sub-phases in this step and it can expand into several areas of your life. I recommend just picking a few. Check out this FREE RESOURCE where I break it down for you. Just remember you get to chose your own path here.
Here are few questions to get your soul churning: What have I done in my life, that I only choose to do because I thought I was suppose to? What have I always really wanted to do instead? How would it feel to wake up every day and be excited? Do I know what my special blend of glitter is?
Once you decide what you really want and how you want to feel…
✨ STEP TWO:
Set yourself up for success.
This is a fun practice that I developed out of the need to survive AND thrive during my husband’s last deployment overseas. I started by setting up my weeks for success on Sundays. I knew what I was going to eat that week, did the laundry and literally anything that would help me succeed on Monday.
It was a lot AND living in chaos, wasn’t going to help me mentally.
Then I started applying this to all kinds of areas of my life. I blocked off time for me. I made sure I got up early enough to workout and I rested when I needed to. I pushed myself when I was numbing out. I got extra help in my business.
On your self love and self care journey, you can do the exact same thing. Where do you need to set up routines to reach your glitter? Where do you need to tell people to no thanks (or to f right off)? Where do you need to rally the troops for support?
I’m also a firm believer in not including everyone in everything. It’s okay to have big goals and be working hard and not letting everyone be involved. It’s a little bit of main character energy. Your life is your life to live.
Set the goal, make the steps and adjust as you go. Baddie energy all day long.
✨ STEP THREE:
Be ruthless with your boundaries.
It’s easy to slide backwards when things get hard.
Create boundaries with people, places, things and mostly YOURSELF. Make a list of what your triggers are and will certainly derail you from your SELF LOVE BADDIE journey. Post that list on your phone, your mirror, wherever!!! HOLD YOURSELF ACCOUNTABLE!
A baddie doesn’t back down. A baddie doesn’t blur the lines. A baddie doesn’t say I’ll do it tomorrow.
SHE GOES AFTER HER GLITTER AND CULTIVATES THE HELL OUT OF IT!
What boundaries do you need to set up to be a SELF LOVE BADDIE?
Okay… so now all that’s left to do is just get started. There isn’t going to be a perfect time. No one is coming to save you. Today is the day. Make that list of what it that you actually want in your life. Part of the self love journey is going to be a little rough. Sometimes you uncover really nasty stuff and blocks. BUT the baddie in you is ready to no longer let life hold you back.
Fall in love with you…by falling in love with the journey. ALL right BADDIE…let’s go!
RESOURCES FOR YOU:
THE GLITTER DAILY PODCAST Stay in that baddie energy with SHORT daily podcasts designed to lit you up and spread that glitter.
THE GLITTER JOURNAL Grab your copy on Amazon and journal your way into deciding what the glitter is for you…and how to cultivate more of it in your life.
BE YOUR OWN GIRL CRUSH This FREE 30 day guide will break down each area of your life, set goals, and start loving YOUR life.